
Vancouver, BC - April 6, 2026 - Recently, I stumbled upon Hal Urban’s Positive Words, Powerful Results in a local book box in Vancouver. Though originally published in 2004, the book's message feels more relevant than ever in our globally connected age. Written by a seasoned educator and motivational speaker, it gently reminds us of the power of words—to uplift, encourage, and create meaningful human connection. Urban’s reflections, drawn from decades of teaching and raising three sons, are timeless in their simplicity and depth.
The Power of Gracious Words
One chapter that especially stands out—Chapter 9, “Gracious Words Show Respect and Gratitude”—carries particular resonance today, with national elections on the horizon and international dialogue increasingly important. Urban shares an eye-opening workshop exercise: participants are asked whether they prefer civil, courteous, and kind language or rude, angry, and crude language. Most choose the former. Yet when asked what kind of language they most often hear or use, many admit it’s the latter.
He then asks a simple but powerful question: “How many of you are free to choose what comes out of your mouth?” Nearly all hands go up. This moment underlines a truth we often overlook—how much power we actually have in shaping our conversations and relationships through the language we choose.
Relevance for Global Cooperation and Networking
At the World Referral Network (WRN), where international cooperation is central, Urban’s message is particularly valuable. In business, politics, and global partnerships, the ability to communicate with respect and clarity is more than just polite—it’s essential. Gracious communication opens doors, builds trust, and creates a strong foundation for successful international ventures.
That’s a reason we’re also excited about WINK 2025 – the Westcoast International Networking Klub. This initiative aims to connect international entrepreneurs in Canada, Europe, and beyond, offering a welcoming platform for collaboration, knowledge-sharing, and friendship. WINK participants come from diverse backgrounds, industries, and cultures, and Urban’s reminder—to pause, reflect, and speak with intention—feels like a guiding principle for all that we do. Whether it’s a business introduction, a cultural exchange, or a strategic partnership, choosing respectful, encouraging words can be the key to long-term success.
A Gentle Reminder for Everyday Life
What makes Positive Words, Powerful Results so impactful is Urban’s gentle, story-based approach. He doesn’t preach—he shares. Through anecdotes and practical exercises, he encourages us to become “good finders,” seeking the positive in others and ourselves. That mindset, when paired with intentional communication, creates a ripple effect—spreading positivity in homes, workplaces, communities, and global networks alike.
Choosing Words That Shape Our Future
In times of tension—whether on the campaign trail or in a cross-border meeting—it’s easy to fall into reactive language. But Urban’s message reminds us that we always have a choice. We can choose kindness over criticism, clarity over confusion, and respect over reaction.
Whether you’re leading a global team, building a cross-cultural business relationship, or simply speaking with someone from a different background, Hal Urban’s wisdom offers a simple but powerful reminder: words matter. They shape not only the outcomes of our conversations, but the quality of our connections—and ultimately, the kind of world we build together.
WRN and WINK are proud to promote global collaboration rooted in respect, positivity, and meaningful communication. And sometimes, all it takes to begin is one gracious word.
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